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Choosing the wrong island for your Hawaii vacation could ruin your vacation. What’s the best Hawaiian islands for first timers?
We work with hundreds of travel experts and locals to help you pick the best Hawaii Island for your 1st visit to Hawaii.
We get this question, A LOT!
“I’m going to Hawai’i. I have 10 days. I want to see Pearl Harbor, Diamond Head, volcanoes, the Grand Canyon of the Pacific, snorkel at Molokini, and take the road to Hana. Which island(s) should I go to?”
Well, you’re going to need a LOT more than 10 days and you’re going to at least 4 islands, not one in this scenario.
Best Hawaiian Islands
Six islands make up the most visited parts of Hawai’i. Of course, Hawai’i includes hundreds of islands, but these six (Oahu, Maui, Lanai, Molokai, The Big Island of Hawaii, and Kauai’i) are the primary inhabited islands.
Each Hawaiian island offers visitors a different experience, so it can be very difficult to tell a first timer which is the “best Hawaiian island” for them.
Many visitors to Hawai’i want to see Pearl Harbor and the volcanoes. These are probably the most visited attractions in Hawai’i. Unfortunately, they’re on two different islands; Oahu and Hawai’i. Even these two islands present visitors with very different experiences.
Hawai’i has a more rural feel to it, while Oahu is tourist central. Think “Disney World of Hawai’i.”
We do have some advice on each island, though to help you choose which one you should pick for your first visit to the Hawaiian islands. We’ve been to the Hawaiian islands about a dozen times, including a visit to each of the main 6 islands by at least one member of the family.
Oahu
Although the primary tourist island, we do not recommend Oahu for your first visit to the Hawaiian islands.
In Oahu, you find Waikiki Beach, Pearl Harbor, Diamond Head, the famous North Shore, Disney’s Resort (Aulani), Honolulu, and the Kualoa Ranch (home of many, many movie and TV shoots).
You can see Oahu featured in so many TV and movie shows from the Brady Bunch and Hawai’i 50 to North Shore and Jurassic Park. That giant, crowded beach lined with high rise hotels? Yep. That’s Waikiki, in Oahu.
That diamond shaped volcanic cone at the end of the beach? Yes. That’s Diamond Head.

The Arizona Pearl Harbor Memorial? Also in Oahu.
With all these great things in Oahu, why do we recommend against it for your first visit?
Well, coming from a very touristy and beachy location (Florida), we prefer not to fly half way around the world to be in another touristy and beachy location focusing on nightlife.
Also, with Oahu being geared towards the Hawaiian tourist, you don’t get much of the Aloha spirit. You miss out on experiencing what Hawai’i can really be like. The local flavor.
Without some effort on your part, it tends to be high rises and white sand beaches. It’s a long way to fly and a fair bit of money for a high rise beach vacation, in our humble opinion. At least for your first visit.
Kauai’i
Kauai’i is known as the garden island. It’s also the oldest Hawaiian island. This Hawaii Island is one of the least populated islands, just ahead of Molokai and Lanai.
Kauai’i is a beautiful island and home to the Grand Canyon of the Pacific called Waimea Canyon and Napali Coast.
With beautiful landscape and resorts, Kauai’i is a great destination for someone looking to explore the outdoors, get away from it all, and still be a little pampered.
While beautiful, we still wouldn’t recommend Kauai’i for your first visit to the Hawaiian islands.
Molokai
Molokai, known as the “most Hawaiian island” boasts the most native Hawaiian population of all the Hawaiian islands.
It’s also one of the most remote and least visited.
With only one true resort and one formal “town,” Molokai definitely provides a beautiful get-away for visitors. I love Molokai. For me, it ranks right up at the top of the Hawaiian islands, but you’d better be prepared to disconnect, unwind, and relax during your visit to Molokai.
Most people that visit Molokai visit the leper colony. In the late 1800s and early 1900s, Molokai served as the exile location for Hawaiians that contracted leprosy (or Hansen’s disease). The colony still exists, today on the Kalaupapa peninsula. Visitors can ride donkeys down to the colony and you can also view it from a lookout high above. You can see the amazing view from the lookout at about 1 minute into this video.
Just beyond the Kalaupapa peninsula, you can see the highest sea cliffs in the world.
It’s a beautiful island and definitely an opportunity to get away from it all. Still, not the best Hawaiian island for first timers.
Lanai
Lanai used to be the pineapple capital of Hawai’i. Now, Larry Ellison (CEO of Oracle) owns 97% of the island, including the two primary Four Seasons resorts.
Lanai is the least populous of all the primary Hawaiian islands. You won’t find a stop light anywhere on the island. You will find horseback trail rides, snorkeling, golfing, sporting clay events, the Garden of the Gods, and luxurious resorts and beaches on Lanai.
Lanai is very popular with honeymooners that can afford one of the very spendy Four Seasons resorts on the island. There’s some shopping to be done in Lanai City, but other than the few adventures I mentioned, above, there’s not a lot to do in Lanai, except relax.
It’s actually a pretty fun island, but you need to be prepared to spend some dough when visiting this Hawaiian island.
The Island of Hawaii (Big Island)
The youngest and largest of the Hawaiian Islands is The Big Island. If your family is looking for adventure, the Big Island is a great choice.
You can experience Black Sand Beach, Kilauea at the Hawaii Volcanoes National Park, or snorkeling with Manta Rays.
You also have popular cities like Hilo and Kona, which make it easier to fly into the Big Island. There is a lot to explore on The Big Island, but it can also get overwhelming.
Best Hawaiian Island for First Timers is Maui
Maui tops our list for first timers visiting the Hawaiian islands.
With plenty to do and not an overwhelming tourist vibe, Maui provides the best of both local flavor and tourist activities to the first time visitor to Hawaii.
Most visitors stay in either Ka’anapali Beach, Wailea, South Maui.
The main town near Ka’anapali is Lahaina. This is a bit touristy, but not bad. This is where you can go see one of the best luaus in all of Hawai’i, the Old Lahaina Luau.
You can also take the road to Hana. A windy, picturesque road filled with local fruit stands and waterfalls. At the end of the road, just past Hana, you can explore the Seven Sacred Pools; natural, terraced pools that dump into the Pacific Ocean.
Just be sure you don’t try to do the Hana loop and drive the “backside” of the road to Hana. It’s not fun…and not usually covered on rental insurance.
You can visit the I’ao Needle, the Maui Ocean Aquarium, go on a hike to one of several blowholes, visit one of my favorite breweries — Maui Brewing Co. — or go up to see the sunrise at Haleakela National Park — a huge volcanic crater — just be sure to bring really warm clothes, as it gets cold at elevation, even in the summer.
There’s so much to do and experience in Maui. It’s like the best of all Hawaiian worlds without making you feel like you flew from one tourist destination to another.
We usually spend about 9-10 days in Maui and that seems just about right. If you get really frisky, you can take a ferry from Maui to Lanai and/or Molokai, so you can get 3 islands in during one trip. However, there’s plenty just on Maui for one vacation.
What’s the best Hawaii Island for first timers in your opinion? Let us know in the comments.
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